We all have things in life that shake us up or wake us up. Sometimes it is something unexpected. What is the scariest thing that has ever happened to you?
Mostly, things that could shake us up happen at a very unexpected time. It happens when we are not prepared; as a result, it causes difficulty to except it. Eventually, realization of never seeing or never having them again leads us to adjust to the new reality.
The most scariest thing that ever happened with me is the loss of my grandparents. Loss of my dearest people is the most scariest thing that can frighten me deeply. Since my childhood, I had a fear of lossing something or someone I like so much. When I hear about it, a feeling of defencelessness risen in me.And at those times, I really don't know what to do. Looks like I have used to the protection that may come from my family in any situation.
That is a very good feeling to protect your children from everything that may hurt their feelings; nevertheless, I think that sometimes we should have to teach and to show to children the "feeling of loss". Because when it happens, they will not have a feeling of defencelessness and so much pain. They will be somehow prepared and feel themselves strong enough to adjust to the reality.